HAPPILY DISSATISFIED

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With out happiness there is no life.

With out dissatisfaction there is no growth.

When you are dissatisfied with others, it makes you unhappy.

When you are dissatisfied with yourself ,it helps you to grow.

When you bench mark others with your expectations it leaves you dissatisfied with them and this affects your happiness.

When you bench mark yourself with your expectations , the dissatisfaction created propels your growth and development.

When you demand a 10 out of 10 from yourself as excellence it shows you where you stand and where you need to go.

When you demand a 10 out of 10 from the world it affects the quality of relationship to the world.

So in all matters ,rate the world as 5 and rate yourself as 10

No that world is any less capable or that you are superman, but because-with out happiness there is no life. So rate the world 5. With out dissatisfaction there is no growth. So rate yourself 10. Thus you will be happily dissatisfied.

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