Seeing Intangible

  With out happiness there is no life. With out dissatisfaction there is no growth. When you are dissatisfied with others, it makes you unhappy. When you are dissatisfied with yourself ,it helps you to grow. When you bench mark others with your expectations it leaves you dissatisfied with them and this affects your happiness. When you bench mark yourself with your expectations , the dissatisfaction created propels your growth and development. When you demand a 10 out of 10 from yourself as excellence it shows you where you stand and where you need to go. When you demand a 10 out of 10 from the world it affects the quality of relationship to the world. So in all matters ,rate the world as 5 and rate yourself as 10 No that world is any less capable or that you are superman, but because-with out happiness there is no life. So rate the world 5. With out dissatisfaction there is no growth. So rate yourself 10. Thus you will be happily dissatisfied.

Brahmacharya is not only abstinence from sex.  Deep attachment towards food.Your thoughts, your speech, your greed, emotion... all sensual pleasures to be kept in check. Senusal pleasure - sex enegry for instance- is so powerful , it contains life in it, so it should not be dissipated thoughtlessly. Would a woman flush a bucket of gold and diamonds dam her toilet? Would a man take his currency notes and burn them in a fire place? No man or woman of average intelligence would knowingly throw their wealthaway. But if they are unaware of the assets that they have,they might still continue to dispose them unknowingly. In Medical Perspective Brahmacharya is to keep BSR ( Body sexual rate) 0 (No sexual thought) BSR has two cycle. Emotinal cycle and Physical cycle. CYCLE A -Emotional Cycle BSR 0= No sexual thought BSR 1= Birth of sexual thought BSR 2 = First sexual sensation in the body BSR 3= First sexual sensation in the genital BSR 4= A glush of blood in the genitals. BSR 5= A state of com

SELF CONFIDENCE (SHRADDHA) -as per ancient wisdom and positive psychology 1)      Achieving my desire is my responsibility 2)      Quality of my work is my responsibility 3)      Quality of my communication is my responsibility 4)      Quality of my time is my responsibility 5)      Quality of my value is my responsibility 6)      Quality of my behaviour is my responsibility 7)      Quality of my happiness is my responsibly     Mantras and Slokas, Meditation -all information is not just to put in to your brain and runs riot there, undigested all your life. We must have self-building, man making, character making assimilation of ideas. If you have assimilated seven ideas and made them your life and character, you have more educated than any man who has got by heart a whole library of mantra. It is only by doing good to others that one attains to one’s own good and it is by leading others to Bhakti and Mukthi that one attain them oneself 1) Achieving my desire i

QUALITY OF YOUR COMMUNICATION IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY   Your communication skills are your responsibility. Your words are your responsibility.  The only thing that you can make sweet that comes from your body is words.-your communication skills-your vocabulary.   What ever other things that comes out from your body are neither sweet nor you can make them sweet .Your sweat smells bad. Your saliva smells bad. other body fluids smells bad. your excretory all, everything.  The one and the only thing that you can make sweet are your words... that comes at the tip of your tongue- it is most refined,... The sweetness of the words remains even if our body disappears.  The world loves swami vivekananda speech... have you seen him or have you seen his live you tube video? No- just his communication-his words-his wisdom-his thoughts of practical vedanta influencing us. Would any one ask his bio data to check his qualifications or credentials?? .  To ask Swami, for his bio data is like ask

  EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT : Stop blamming some one, take the responsibilty to respond to life with " acceptance" When someone is doing something in a way you donot want it to be done and you are not able to accept it, you become angry.  When some one is doing some thing a way you dont want it to be done but you are able to accept it, you remain tolerant. When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt you and  you  not able to accept it, it develops hatred in you.  When some has done something that has emotionally hurt you and you are able to accept it, it helps you forgive them. When someone has something that you donot have and you are not able to accept it, you become jealous. However you can accept it, you remain inspired . When you encounter uncerfainty and you are not sure about how I am going to handle it, i am not able to accept, it causes fear in you. However if you are able to accept it, you feel adventurous. When someone is present in your thoughts but is

  For the stress, here is the rub. No body can make you stress/unhappy unless you agree to it.No matter what others do to you. How you react to an experience determines whether you will be stressed or happy. It is your mind that wrecks havoc on your peace, cause frustruation and destroys happiness-not the external world. It is a mistake to believe that he or she or this or that circumstances or outside world make you stress. You are the architect of your own happiness. You are the architect of your own unhappiness. One fact we know about ourself is one day we die. The death of body is inevitable. But we celebrate our birthday, birthdays of our near and dear ones, family etc. We dont care about the future anxiety-the death. We celebrate as we have no death. We are not stressed .We conduct huge party/celebrations for our birthdays. Same way we should handle stress as if there is no stress. How to handle stress? : If you ask any one across the world,the most likely answer is

 The psychologists say that the thought moves from our subconscious mind to our conscious mind. And from conscious mind the thoughts are manifested in the form of speech, action etc. The main culprit in this is neither subconscious nor conscious mind is with in our control. Thought in subsconscious mind-as the name suggest being in subconsious level, you are not aware of it. It is your heriditary or Gene. Manifestation of thoughts from conscious mind is also not with in your control. Because thoughts are already expressed. Upanishad says that there is a tiny gap between Subsconsious mind and Conscious mind. This is called Ragadvesa. The gap is very tiny but big impact. In Ragadvesa two components will pull you in opposite direction. 1) Sreya = You know what is good for you! 2) Preya = You know what is pleasant for you! Both you know. Both are not same. A little difference,but make all difference in life You know watching Mega Serial daily 630 to 11 pm night, never boost your self co

  Even if it's your coveted BMW or Mercedes Benz, if you apply Brake and Clutch together -it will not move forward. Will the vehicle move? No. You may have all the talent,  but if you don't have self confidence you will be like Couch Potato. What is the first component of self confidence-Self Efficacy! Your ability to face the first sign of trouble. "Let me try. I can do it" is self efficacy. In astrological perspective, 1st House of the natal astrological chart is the paramount factor to be analysed. 3rd house and Planet Mercury is also equally important If planet Mercury is super strong in your birth chart, your confidence level will be very high. Your EQ and IQ also will be sky high. You will look more charming too, Even your skin will be supple and soft. This further raises your confidence level. If one's self confidence level is too low, astrological remedies are: Planetary Gems and depending on planetary strength in your birth chart, astrological remedie

               Not only in Mahabharata but in my day to day life, my favourite character is Karna . He knew only to Give. He didn't show any ingratitue towards his Friend and fought against his own blood for the sake of Friendship.   To be good and right when everything is good and right, any body can. But nothing went right for him, he still remained Good.   World will become more and more sexier, creative and funnier. Continuation of evolution. It doesn't sound bad to me. But the love towards wisdom, gratitude, dedication, sacrifice will progressivelly fall.   This needled me to blog post an article about Karna for my blog. I hope it will at least school you some thing new.   Karna is the first ever know baby born by utilizing the solar energy so he had Surya(Sun) with in him-nothing less than a Hero. He was the most powerful, bravest and strategic warrior in Mahabharat. He was gifted   Kavacha Kundala ( armor and earrings) by his father Sun God to protect

  There is a difference between Transactional Selling and Relationship Selling-whether it is product, corporate career, friendship or politics. If i buy a laptop from you ( seller), I have made a transaction and am considered a customer. However if I start buying all my electronic equipments from you, I have developed a relationship and have become a client of you ( seller). I have developed a relationship because of which I ( the client) keep buying more and more. The same can happen to Sales Person -Boss relationship in Corporate career. If you are a sales person working in a company you can feel the same relationship with your boss. Your boss will make friend with you with the sole objective of getting business done by you. Once the usefulness goes ,the friendship also goes.It is unfortunate because it is very short sighted and insincere.   The same can happend to customers. Some sellers make friends by wining and dinning people with the sole objective of doing busines

LOVE If you do a web search, you will know dating sites for love are booming.The market value of the online dating industry in the next 5 years is expected to be 100 million USD   Both the younger especially below 24 years and matured people irrespective of gender, date for want of sex, love and marriage.   I am going to give you hard truth .We love the whole world for our own sake. This is the nature of the World. Any why the world like this? Because every body wants happiness and fun. We wish to date or love each other for our own happiness not for the happiness of the other. The moment your happiness lessened the love will be reduced.   The Brihadaranyaka Upanishad teaches not to love him/her for the sake of our happiness. Love him/her for the sake of his/her happiness.   When there is no cause that is “ Love”. When cause comes in , it becomes business!!! I heard many friends of opposite sex saying me, they don’t get connected to their loved one’s and the

Happiness formula as per Sligment's positive pyschology. H= P+E+M ( Pleasure+ Engagement+ Meaning) H= Happiness ( " Kama" comparing to Upanishad) P= Pleasure ( " Artha" comparing to Upanishad) E= Engagement ( " Dharma" comparing to Upanishad) M= Meaning You may ask some one -friend, boss, family, children, college students-all want fun- raw feelings. The fun is coming under category" Pleasure". Pleasure can give your immense happiness. It is joy. But it is a hedonic feeling ( Sukha). As per Taithriya upanishad viz Bhriguvalli divides sukha   in to five types viz Annamaya, Pranamaya,Manomaya, Vijnanamaya, & Anandamaya- But all are burst of momentary pleasures. This means it will last for few seconds-short lived. Thanks to   sexual orgasim ,but for 10-60 seconds.Then we are drained out. It is habbit forming. It can lead to unhappiness. People require both hedonia and eudaimonia to flourish. But when ever you enjoy hedonic feel