Seeing Intangible

  Even if it's your coveted BMW or Mercedes Benz, if you apply Brake and Clutch together -it will not move forward. Will the vehicle move? No. You may have all the talent,  but if you don't have self confidence you will be like Couch Potato. What is the first component of self confidence-Self Efficacy! Your ability to face the first sign of trouble. "Let me try. I can do it" is self efficacy. In astrological perspective, 1st House of the natal astrological chart is the paramount factor to be analysed. 3rd house and Planet Mercury is also equally important If planet Mercury is super strong in your birth chart, your confidence level will be very high. Your EQ and IQ also will be sky high. You will look more charming too, Even your skin will be supple and soft. This further raises your confidence level. If one's self confidence level is too low, astrological remedies are: Planetary Gems and depending on planetary strength in your birth chart, astrological remedie

LOVE If you do a web search, you will know dating sites for love are booming.The market value of the online dating industry in the next 5 years is expected to be 100 million USD   Both the younger especially below 24 years and matured people irrespective of gender, date for want of sex, love and marriage.   I am going to give you hard truth .We love the whole world for our own sake. This is the nature of the World. Any why the world like this? Because every body wants happiness and fun. We wish to date or love each other for our own happiness not for the happiness of the other. The moment your happiness lessened the love will be reduced.   The Brihadaranyaka Upanishad teaches not to love him/her for the sake of our happiness. Love him/her for the sake of his/her happiness.   When there is no cause that is “ Love”. When cause comes in , it becomes business!!! I heard many friends of opposite sex saying me, they don’t get connected to their loved one’s and the

Happiness formula as per Sligment's positive pyschology. H= P+E+M ( Pleasure+ Engagement+ Meaning) H= Happiness ( " Kama" comparing to Upanishad) P= Pleasure ( " Artha" comparing to Upanishad) E= Engagement ( " Dharma" comparing to Upanishad) M= Meaning You may ask some one -friend, boss, family, children, college students-all want fun- raw feelings. The fun is coming under category" Pleasure". Pleasure can give your immense happiness. It is joy. But it is a hedonic feeling ( Sukha). As per Taithriya upanishad viz Bhriguvalli divides sukha   in to five types viz Annamaya, Pranamaya,Manomaya, Vijnanamaya, & Anandamaya- But all are burst of momentary pleasures. This means it will last for few seconds-short lived. Thanks to   sexual orgasim ,but for 10-60 seconds.Then we are drained out. It is habbit forming. It can lead to unhappiness. People require both hedonia and eudaimonia to flourish. But when ever you enjoy hedonic feel

  If   you   do   quick   web search   you get answer based on linkedin . But continuation of evolution of India had to be based on the bed rock of her spiritual sources-Upanishads which are an inexhaustible mine of spiritual strength. Let us ask you. How many whatsapp contacts you have? When did you spoken to them last?( some of the contacts you may need to get their confirmation first to call them) When did you meet last as a Family gathering? How many days did you spend together? How much time did you spend together, sitting right beside them. Did you have breakfast ,lunch or dinner together? Did you ask how his days are passing OR Imagine this: You are having sudden chest pain and your car is in the shop. You know it is angina. You call your whatsapp contact friend because you need a ride to the hospital . You know he lives close by." Sorry" your friend yawns in to the phone. He just can't.