Seeing Intangible

  With out happiness there is no life. With out dissatisfaction there is no growth. When you are dissatisfied with others, it makes you unhappy. When you are dissatisfied with yourself ,it helps you to grow. When you bench mark others with your expectations it leaves you dissatisfied with them and this affects your happiness. When you bench mark yourself with your expectations , the dissatisfaction created propels your growth and development. When you demand a 10 out of 10 from yourself as excellence it shows you where you stand and where you need to go. When you demand a 10 out of 10 from the world it affects the quality of relationship to the world. So in all matters ,rate the world as 5 and rate yourself as 10 No that world is any less capable or that you are superman, but because-with out happiness there is no life. So rate the world 5. With out dissatisfaction there is no growth. So rate yourself 10. Thus you will be happily dissatisfied.

Brahmacharya is not only abstinence from sex.  Deep attachment towards food.Your thoughts, your speech, your greed, emotion... all sensual pleasures to be kept in check. Senusal pleasure - sex enegry for instance- is so powerful , it contains life in it, so it should not be dissipated thoughtlessly. Would a woman flush a bucket of gold and diamonds dam her toilet? Would a man take his currency notes and burn them in a fire place? No man or woman of average intelligence would knowingly throw their wealthaway. But if they are unaware of the assets that they have,they might still continue to dispose them unknowingly. In Medical Perspective Brahmacharya is to keep BSR ( Body sexual rate) 0 (No sexual thought) BSR has two cycle. Emotinal cycle and Physical cycle. CYCLE A -Emotional Cycle BSR 0= No sexual thought BSR 1= Birth of sexual thought BSR 2 = First sexual sensation in the body BSR 3= First sexual sensation in the genital BSR 4= A glush of blood in the genitals. BSR 5= A state of com

SELF CONFIDENCE (SHRADDHA) -as per ancient wisdom and positive psychology 1)      Achieving my desire is my responsibility 2)      Quality of my work is my responsibility 3)      Quality of my communication is my responsibility 4)      Quality of my time is my responsibility 5)      Quality of my value is my responsibility 6)      Quality of my behaviour is my responsibility 7)      Quality of my happiness is my responsibly     Mantras and Slokas, Meditation -all information is not just to put in to your brain and runs riot there, undigested all your life. We must have self-building, man making, character making assimilation of ideas. If you have assimilated seven ideas and made them your life and character, you have more educated than any man who has got by heart a whole library of mantra. It is only by doing good to others that one attains to one’s own good and it is by leading others to Bhakti and Mukthi that one attain them oneself 1) Achieving my desire i

QUALITY OF YOUR COMMUNICATION IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY   Your communication skills are your responsibility. Your words are your responsibility.  The only thing that you can make sweet that comes from your body is words.-your communication skills-your vocabulary.   What ever other things that comes out from your body are neither sweet nor you can make them sweet .Your sweat smells bad. Your saliva smells bad. other body fluids smells bad. your excretory all, everything.  The one and the only thing that you can make sweet are your words... that comes at the tip of your tongue- it is most refined,... The sweetness of the words remains even if our body disappears.  The world loves swami vivekananda speech... have you seen him or have you seen his live you tube video? No- just his communication-his words-his wisdom-his thoughts of practical vedanta influencing us. Would any one ask his bio data to check his qualifications or credentials?? .  To ask Swami, for his bio data is like ask

  EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT : Stop blamming some one, take the responsibilty to respond to life with " acceptance" When someone is doing something in a way you donot want it to be done and you are not able to accept it, you become angry.  When some one is doing some thing a way you dont want it to be done but you are able to accept it, you remain tolerant. When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt you and  you  not able to accept it, it develops hatred in you.  When some has done something that has emotionally hurt you and you are able to accept it, it helps you forgive them. When someone has something that you donot have and you are not able to accept it, you become jealous. However you can accept it, you remain inspired . When you encounter uncerfainty and you are not sure about how I am going to handle it, i am not able to accept, it causes fear in you. However if you are able to accept it, you feel adventurous. When someone is present in your thoughts but is

  For the stress, here is the rub. No body can make you stress/unhappy unless you agree to it.No matter what others do to you. How you react to an experience determines whether you will be stressed or happy. It is your mind that wrecks havoc on your peace, cause frustruation and destroys happiness-not the external world. It is a mistake to believe that he or she or this or that circumstances or outside world make you stress. You are the architect of your own happiness. You are the architect of your own unhappiness. One fact we know about ourself is one day we die. The death of body is inevitable. But we celebrate our birthday, birthdays of our near and dear ones, family etc. We dont care about the future anxiety-the death. We celebrate as we have no death. We are not stressed .We conduct huge party/celebrations for our birthdays. Same way we should handle stress as if there is no stress. How to handle stress? : If you ask any one across the world,the most likely answer is

 The psychologists say that the thought moves from our subconscious mind to our conscious mind. And from conscious mind the thoughts are manifested in the form of speech, action etc. The main culprit in this is neither subconscious nor conscious mind is with in our control. Thought in subsconscious mind-as the name suggest being in subconsious level, you are not aware of it. It is your heriditary or Gene. Manifestation of thoughts from conscious mind is also not with in your control. Because thoughts are already expressed. Upanishad says that there is a tiny gap between Subsconsious mind and Conscious mind. This is called Ragadvesa. The gap is very tiny but big impact. In Ragadvesa two components will pull you in opposite direction. 1) Sreya = You know what is good for you! 2) Preya = You know what is pleasant for you! Both you know. Both are not same. A little difference,but make all difference in life You know watching Mega Serial daily 630 to 11 pm night, never boost your self co